We live together since our early twenties and things seem to be going along but now I am looking for more. I didn't really feel the need to put a label on anything because I was just enjoying hanging out with him, and I'd always sort of assumed we were exclusive. Going on dates is definitely a big part of your life, but you might not be able to fit as many in as you'd like. You are sooo right! But sometimes, when it takes you so long to decide, maybe you should seriously ask yourself if this is what you really want. All of his relationships have been anywhere from years with no marriages.
I need more than just late-night texts.
Is There Such a Thing As “Too Long” in Dating?
Because just like in When Harry Meets Sallywhen you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you will want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible. Thanks for your honest and insightful post. The longer you date someone, the more variables there are affecting the fate of your relationship. And you cannot claim it back.